Did you make out your list too?
You know, that list, of all of the qualities you were looking for in a guy.Honest Stable Hard working Funny…
With my list in my head and in my heart, I began the search.
When you’re 19 years old, finding a guy with all the traits of your 49 year old dad can be pretty hard to find. Can I get an Amen!
Here’s what I wish someone had told me: switch your focus. Focus on becoming the girl God wants you to be.
Put your time, effort and energy into developing who you are. Give your attention to cultivating love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control.
Focus on becoming the girl God wants you to become, a girl reaching her fullest potential in Christ, and let God take care of bringing a guy.
The girl who invests her time, energy, and emotions, not on a guy she doesn’t have, but on the One she does makes a move. She moves from obsessing over why she isn’t wanted to becoming the type of girl a guy would want. Not just as someone to date, but as the one he’d want to spend the rest of his life with. And that outcome is just a byproduct!
The true benefit is becoming a girl with confidence. The girl who grows more like Jesus grows to like herself more.
Today, share this graphic with your girl on her favorite social media: Instagram, Twitter, Facebook! Help her switch her focus.
[tweetthis]Focus on becoming the girl God wants, reaching her fullest potential. Let God take care of bringing a guy.[/tweetthis]
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